Dude Said, "Black Girls Are Easy"

Warning: this note contains graphic material as it is in response to another post.
This blog is my perspective on another blog and mentality I ran across :http://www.facebook.com/l.php?u=http%3A%2F%2Fblackgirlsareeasy.blogspot.com%2F2011%2F03%2Fare-you-wifey-or-are-you-pussy.html%3Fspref%3Dfb&h=38cc2
Now my first problem with this post is, this black man singled out BLACK women for being easy not just women, or some women of every race/culture or creed..... but Black women. *Blank Stare* Then it's the down grading of sisters under the guise that he is in fact trying to uplift and educate them about the way BLACK MEN DOWN PLAY BLACK women. I've seen "easy and gullable women with poor self worth in all colors and flavors, secondly, I KNOW women in all colors who are everything HE claims is an ideal wifey but only wanna be "pussy" to a brother like him, cuz he's not hubby material to HER. You see, everybody is just "dick or pussy" to somebody and nobody wants to just be "dick or pussy' all the time to anybody. Nobody can determine but each and every individual somebody who will wife who and who wouldn't. The responses to his article is proof of that. It's just like the same brother can be a dog to one woman and a complete gentleman and treating another like a Queen, the same woman can act like she's just pussy to one man and be all down with another man . I quote him on,"Are you the type he wifes or are you just "pussy?" See this is a doubled edged sword my brothers, you can only get away with this self sufficient, self educated bullshit with a certain type of woman too .



Now don't get me wrong, I agree we set the stage for how we are treated and that we have half the responsibility on the outcome based on the income(Brains, worth and experience intuitively to know the signs that ur time is being wasted if u think a brother is goin to invest in u seriously). Now dude is saying if a sister is boring and unintelligible, can't hold a decent conversation cuz she's doesn't know shit and just not an interesting person, she is just ass and she has no other purpose but to get a man off. He just going to do drive bys, he's not gonna spend any quality time with her. Then dude goes further to remind us these are not just "hoes" he's speaking of but "girlfriends" status. Women they might even have children with and will be seen in public with but their families and loved ones don't know this woman cuz she's just "pussy". I ask you then, what REAL benefits does "wifey" have on pussy? 99% of the time, he don't even want wifey's pussy but definitely has some pussy on the side. Trust when I tell you, a brother that agrees with this mentality is keeping and constantly looking for any other pussy in addition to wifey's. It's the whole reason he needs to classify women into the two compartments cuz he needs to justify his greed, selfishness and egotistical bullshit. It don't have a damn thing to do with her being , smart enough, interesting enough to keep his mind stimulated cuz even then he will still try to LABEL her "pussy" if that's all he WANTS her to be to HIM.





Wifey who agrees with this menatlity or women who feel they're wifey material and bout to get wifed, believing the hype that even if her man keeps pussy on the side she is somehow above this woman. HOW?! Bcuz he comes home to you every night? Bcuz U wear his ring and his last name? Bcuz he's with u and the kids on Sunday? Cuz he keeps food on the table and the bills paid? First of all, he's not being faithful to YOU, he's dishonoring his vows to you. Gives u some spending Money? Pussy is with him more,he more than likely spending money with and on her too unless she got a man too and he's just her play thing as well. Then some of you dudes swear up and down a woman is just pussy to you but u worry about who else she spending time with when it's ur wife u should be watching.U will go home and cuss your wife out cuz pussy is under your skin and got you fucked up and give wifey some "rude boy" cuz pussy is on ur mind. U can't wait to see pussy, even if you aint met pussy yet,LOL. The mission itself is what ur in love with cuz it's NOT wifey and it's for this very reason a lot of women don't want you for anything but dick and pities wifey. She can have everything wifey can have and not be tied to your ass legally. She can walk away just like u can. Then wifey walks too, when she realizes there is no real value in being your wife. U love her? really? That's why U have pussy in waiting, cuz even though wifey don't have to have bomb pussy she smart and so interesting that is all you need to keep yo ass home and be happy and faithful.



That's some bullshit too, That's why Shaq left his wife of many years and kids for Hoops "pussy" ass?! Pussy don't matter itself? LOL,okay, this is where I say men proudly marry pussy all the time. Some women are still single cuz they waiting on a man to tell them he in love with their brains and NOT their pussy or both. be careful fellas , cuz most of the time you play yourselves trying to play these women. All you're really doing is labeling her so u don't have to feel guilty for how you use her, but sooner or later and the longer u use her u gonnna feel her and that's when she gon leave you for good. learn to be content even if you can't satisfy ur insatiable inner hoe that you have a woman with brains and personality, a heart, loyalty and good pussy or you could end up with nothing but pussy and life is just booty for you. The bottom line is... wifey or not, if u play with pussy you get fucked(in more than one way)!!!



Final thought:

Ladies? A man in your life that truly cares about U(or want u to think he does for whatever reason) will tell you you have the power, ur pussy. You have to know when to give it and when to take it. If u give it even after a certain time frame has passed and he was good til he got it then started acting a fool on you. that's not your fault he was gonna do that anyway cuz he never lost sight of the goal, to hit it and quit it. Just take ur shit back , learn from it n move on. Don't let him keep hittin it when it's CLEAR he don't want YOU. Everything is a gamble, who's to say he won't do abstinence with YOU a whole year(cuz he gettin it somewhere else) and still lose interest once he hit? he can know from the jump ur wifey material and still not wife u cuz he just wants the pussy on U. U CAN NOT CHANGE HIS MIND or heart,but you can change yours.

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